a life's

life is a long journey for you and me...we mus appreciate people who still around us,beofre too late

2009年5月23日星期六





After sturggling for my exam for the whole week,finally today I gave myself a break.Althought that whole week,I really tired..almost every night slept by 5am.but I told myself "IT IS WORTH IT" Everybody inside their heart,got sumthing they might felt pricelss,they can sacrifice everything along the road to "SUCESS"..For me now,studies are priceless.But for the past few years,I had wasted alot of time on those "puppy love"..but I not regret cause I knew at least what I want now


I want intorduce a movie,which actually gave me alot of inspiration and wake me up....<<向世界出發On the Road>>....one of the chapter is"成與敗" "廖偉雄‧毛里求斯"

怎樣算成功?如何定失敗?一群公認的失敗者,將毛里求斯由無人
荒島變成非洲天堂 這樣算不算是成功?
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毛里求斯是非洲最東南面的小島國家,由火山形成,面積與香港相約,四周被珊瑚礁包圍,被稱為印度洋上的寶石,亦是今日的渡假天堂。誰會想到,今日的人間天堂,在二百多年前,其實是一個無人願意來的荒島。而毛里求斯今日的成就,完全是靠一群當年被認為是失敗者的人所創造的。





毛里求斯七成人口都是印度後裔,大部分都信奉印度教。在每年印度曆十月的月圓日會舉行大型祭祀,信徒會抬起一個與自己重量相約的祭壇,用銀勾穿過皮膚、吊滿全身,還會以銀針穿過舌頭及口腔,進行長達六小時的大巡遊。他們不流血、不留傷痕、還聲稱毫無痛楚。他們深信,這是神蹟。印度教相信,人生充滿不同挫折及試煉,只要有勇氣去通過鍛鍊,就可以得到救贖,人生便可以邁向成功。







做人也需要這樣,你就算經歷過很多不同的困難、不同的失敗,最重要一件事是,
你必須要保持氣勢,無論怎樣,能夠勇敢、夠堅強,
你的氣勢就是成功的來源







嚴格來說,毛里求斯的第一批移民,並不是人,而是全世界其中一種最大的龜─亞達伯拉象龜。一隻成年象龜平均有551磅重。在昔日的毛里求斯,牠們是運貨的工具,而牠們亦是陸地上最長壽的動物。地理環境方面,毛里求斯被印度洋所包圍,四方八面都是天然珊瑚礁,不少遊客都會專程登上潛艇,欣賞此處的海洋世界






阿燦廖偉雄由七十年代開始,在電視紅足二十年。此後他選擇了棄影從商,後美容傳銷生意失利,被銀行及財務公司入稟追討,最終選擇申請破產。面對失敗,有人會一厥不振,但是阿燦就從破產領會到解決問題的方法。
阿燦:「最大的煩惱不超過五日,在五日內我會作出解決。第一日,會好『』;第二日,心口會『翳』住,一路頂住;第三日,我開始想辦法,我應該走哪條路,有哪幾個出路我可以選擇;第四日,分析不同出路的利與弊;第五日,作決定。就是如此簡單。」







二百年前,沒有人預料到,這個只得火山泥的荒島,會成為今日全非洲人均國民生產總值最高的國家。令毛里求斯反敗為勝的,是這些遍佈全島的甘蔗田。
在毛里求斯,有一半土地都是蔗田。收割下來的甘蔗會被送往工廠,
搾汁造成糖。在十八世紀,糖的價值媲美黃金,毛里求斯更加是全世界最重要的原糖出產地。現在,毛里求斯每年出產50萬噸糖到歐盟國家,除了做糖之外,甘蔗還可以釀成酒。
在毛里求斯,每年就有25%的國家收入,來自做糖及酒。農業,令毛里求斯反敗為勝。




成功、失敗、再成功、再失敗




我说的:“成功的方法就是如何消失怨气,如何去开拓未来,怨预事无补,要去改变他,这个方法不行,再用第二个,第三个,第四个,我不相信没有一个方法不行。过度期发生了有很多不同的苦难,发生了很多不同的事,不重要,但是那个方法不行,你不要去埋怨。。经历成功,失败,成功、失敗、再成功、再失敗,但我们相信最终我们会从大输家变大赢家。。。。已有很多失败的经验,你就往向成功,这才是成功的价值。。。。




如果你怕失败,怕所有的一切,这个不试,那个不试,你永远不会成功,你怕别人笑,怕人家看低,你永远不会成功!

失败了不要怨!

2009年5月10日星期日

Happy mother's Day!

(This is my mummy and me)^^
her little princess..we having our
lunch in black cannon(jusco)


Today was 18/5/2009 Mother's day.I quite happy for my mum,and I told myself I must let my mum felt happy and proud for her own daughter.Today early in the morning,I went to the super kinta market,at first I decided to baught some sunflower from there..
Those sunflower seem really nice,and myself love it so much.


I went to one of the shop,I asked for the price for two sunflower plus wrapping..


.do you know it cost how much he told me??!




I just cant believed my own ear by that moment,,,,
:"miss,it only cost rm60..do you want anything more?I
will help you to wrap it now.."

Wow....i just cant believe.I just bought myself for 10 bulks...
I kept quite and said:"let me think first..dont wrap frist!..

hooo.Without wait for a minute,I already ran from there..
This kind of peoples are them thaught us as customer was their food or prey...they can suck our blood during this big day!....

I start to think,alot of peoples bought for those flowers which cost for
rm100..I not mean their stupid or being fool by the flower shop dealer.but ask yourself isnt't worth it to buy such things for 100 bulks?

Maybe the receipent might be happy by that moment when they receieve...but after that what will they do towards that bunch of flowers??
The best idea will be put it aside..

.
You spend for rm100 just make a person happy for a minute or felt romantic...
dont you felt it not worth it??

In this world,alot of poor countries.which need our help..they even struggling for food,water,home,or even clothes...but for us?!!

When we are staying in comfortable zone..we will not realize others who are suffering in other places.We even spent 100 bulks for just a flowers...but do you ever think that rm100 for people who are poor,what can they do?They atleast buy a packet of rice which can make it to last for a month...

So...I not mean I not that kind not romantic person,I am just realistic.Who will felt unhappy when received a bunch a flowers,but when you think ,the rm100 you use it in other ways like helping others,which gaving you the same feeling also...at the same time you will felt you are doing something you felt being satisfied...!!

Helping others,will gave you happiness and satisfied.Even a word"thanks "


..it actually means more than that..so please dont being fool by those romance,


use your money wisely which can also brings you happiness,.....

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2009年5月8日星期五

what a exhausted days...

(This is Ah Qiang and me)
Today really exhausted.I had been busy for the whole day,drive here,drive there being with my classmate Ah Qiang.
Firstly we together went to the super kinta Pasar..OMG..that traffic really damn jam!I am going to explode with that traffic,I just nonestop cut the line..

hmm,although I knew As a responsible driver,I should not be act like that..my classmate also just stunned at that moment,although he quite solute with my driving "cut quee"skill,but he said I am not patient enough...
He quite truth..today I with my classmate
(Ah Qiang
)discuss alot of my feeling things.I told what I felt towards somebody
and when we arrived in parkson,we met somebody car..
AH qiang can understand my feeling..haha..
.I really felt happy although we not knew each other very long,but he can
understand me well.

One thing he had told me...
he say:"a guy who just want always hanging with you,but just want
remaining as friend relationship,is because that person dont want have any burden"

At that moment,I just stunned.I knew what he said quite truth.i CANT denied!
By the way,I accompany him bought some present for his girlfriend,help him choose wrapping paper and moreover help him sent to his girlfriend..

hooo...by the end.Ah qiang called me up and said thanks...
although I am tired.But I am quite happy,at least got a friend knew to appreciate..

2009年5月7日星期四

Form 6's life

Many peoples were afraid to enter form six,the main reason is because the syllbus was too diffcult.I quite agreed with it,but at this moment I can,t surrender.Since I had chosen the road,I need to hold the responsible.Last week,I went back to my account tution teacher centre.I told about my feeling towards studies,life's and family.From her eyes,I saw sympathy,uncomfortable..but she gave me a conclusion.

"You are actually ran away from what you afraid of,
time will not wait for you,
you should stand up now and face it"..

I just stunt at that moment,I kept on thinking what she had told me..I knew is time to let me face it.I admit,I do ran away from all sort of problems since a long times ago.Until today,I do not felt regret that I had found my tution teacher,although talk alot of bad words infront me..but she are the only one gaving me inspiration..she wake me up!

Since two months ago,I break with my ex..at that moment,I felt like myself beyond my control..I just cried.Finally I can settle by myself now...Atleast I am not as childish as last time.I admit he do love me alot,he done alot of things for me,he sacrifice alot...but I knew it.I can't with this guy together walk for the rest of my life'S.


So..I just decided be single.Atleast I am free of stress and worries.As long now I am always go hanging around,got lots of freedom,I can do what I want...this what I want..although sometime I might felt lonely...but I think I am happy with it..^.^